There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful girlfriend who could be a covert prostitute or have a history of indulging in it.
There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women isn’t really the type you could be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship.
Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.
Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mind set. Essentially, they prostitute themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them.
This has led to the coinage of the term ‘covert prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for sex.
So here are some signs you must observe:
1. She has a poor or average income but lives large
Of course, she might be a cleaner in the local hospital but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?
2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex:
These type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex (they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less.
When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). Sex now becomes a reward in the relationship.
3. She frequently uses the word Prostitute, slut and LovePeddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like
If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is “prostitute” .
This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.
4 . She openly tells you she doesn’t trust her friends around you , but still doesn’t want to leave them
Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid (ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends.
She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business).
To her friends she will be like “go get your own maga Dam”.
5. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women
She knew that the only thing she is good at is sex, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it.
She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.
6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is
‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn’t work or go to school during the weekend.
7. She is known by multiple names among people
Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.
If your “Chizzy” is called as “Rossy” by some other guy and called as jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias.
Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity.
Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.