A lady on Facebook has decided to advise her fellow Ghanaian women to work and find something to supports themselves instead of complaining that their boyfriends are stingy.
She made this declaring in order to empower her fellow women to take up the chance to support their own lives instead of waiting for someone to come into their lives in the form of relationship so they can feed off the person.
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As they say “there is peace in making and spending your own money because you know how you suffered to get it.”
Below is the post she made:
“I am so tired of hearing Ghanaian women complain about Ghanaian men being stingy. Dating someone’s son doesn’t mean they should pay for all your expenses. I noticed that this mindset only comes from us Ghanaian women and I do not blame them but rather our forefathers back then. Women are capable of doing anything they set their mind to. After living in America for 16 years i learned that the reason why most of the women abroad are even more successful than men is because they work hard and they do not rely on men. I think if Africans can do the same then men will respect us. You can’t put your burden on a young man who also has his own dreams and aspirations to fulfil. Men actually go through a lot of things more than us women. The only difference is men just do not talk about it. Men are actually under more pressure to succeed if y’all do not know. Thank you. Sincerely someone who honestly understand both genders.“
Her observation was supported by many and few people also disagreed with her. Some made comments to add to her point.