If your boyfriend impregnates another lady, he has proven that he is not good “husband material” and does not deserve your forgiveness.
This the piece of advice renowned Counsellor Dr Reverend Mrs Charlotte Oduro has for ladies in such relationships, adding that such cheating boyfriends will never stop cheating and the forgiving ladies would have to prepare for a much more intensified cheating ( adultery) when they get married.
“You love him. Does he love you? If he loved you, he wouldn’t have gone to sleep with somebody and impregnate the person,” she quizzed the audience at a recent programme dubbed “Love Clinic” covered by MyNewsGh.com
She stressed that the cheating boyfriends are unlikely to stop their cheating ways and will continue to make the ‘mistake’ of cheating, she admonished.
“If you are here and a guy you’re not married to tells you: ‘I am sorry. I love you but it was a mistake and I impregnated that lady. I am sorry. Can you forgive me; I won’t do it again.’ Please start registering in your heart – if you want to marry a man like that – there are 20 kids coming to add up to yours. [This is because] because that mistake that made him do that he will still do it…you cannot change him,” she counseled.
Dr Mrs Oduro also spoke on the need to choose life partners carefully among others.
The Love Clinic programme was meant to, among others, equip both the married and unmarried to make informed choices in their relationships.